"We always win..." is a quote I heard frequently from a dear friend, Howard. He excelled at pushing people to grow both intellectually and as authentic individuals.
How is your life going right now?
Regardless, you are winning and getting what you want.
If your prize has been drama and pain, what have YOU been doing to win those? (I know, this part can be quite nasty!)
Many of us are blind to our actions and motivations that keep the drama and pain in our lives, often blaming others.
The first step to living without drama and pain is to take personal responsibility for your own actions and contributions to the drama and undesirable circumstances. Own it and admit it, even it scares you. Self-accountability will set you free!